True friendship will show itself when needed

I saved this one because I felt it was the most important thought for you to be left with.

As I went through the process of planning for and preparing for this move, to say that my life was chaotic would not even begin to cover it. Between the work that I do, and all that went into this entire process, I have been running crazy for months.

Through it all, there was one person who bent over backwards for me on every occasion, although at the same time she maintained her own integrity by not bending so far that she didn't tend to her own needs in the process.

I am an active social person, and I have a lot of friends from all over the U.S., most of whom I see at least semi-frequently during annual get-togethers that we have planned. However, I could count the people who would do for me what this person did on less than one hand.

The person in question knows who it is, so I won't call them out by name, except of course to say Thank You for all that you did! I'm quite sure I haven't expressed that sentiment as much as I should have. You have been there for me darling :-) … just a phone call away!

I guess you have to give friendship a chance – and then again I am forced to quote “these are passing phases....if itz bad enjoy the bad...if itz good..cherish the good...if u think u have frnds...they will stick along....if u dont..they will perish....dont go about clinging on to them! u made ur effort...that should satisfy u....now deal with the task at hand which is more than anything else! advise hai...je pasaand aayi taan bann layi nahi aayi taan vee vadiya hai inney dinna tton v taan survive kar hee rahi hain....hauli hauli aadat paijaugee...” jan 14^th  

“never feel some one has gone away.....its just he/she needed some more space...and we being good frnds understand that and give him/her the desired!

frndships are forever...never think of breaking any...or losing any....they can neither be broken nor won...its the vibrations which bring us together....so dear just chill and cheer that we hv frnds who are so close to us that they can say any damn word to us...and we to them.. mood mood ki baat hoti hai..aur mauke mauke ki...dil pe nahi lene ka....mast rehne ka...samjhe....smile always:-)” june 25^th 2007  

 

“jitehy marzi jaa muteaareh….. hun sadey walon chutiaan ney!” 

 

The Lesson: You may have an address book full of names, a contact list a mile long, or even a database of the hundreds of people that you know all over the world, and that is a wonderful thing. However, how many fingers and toes would it take for you to count the number of people who would truly jump through fire for you? Once you have that figure, pick up the phone and call them right now just to say "Thanks for being my friend"   

Ironically, there are always lessons that one learns over one’s life time – past year has taught me much.