Sunday, June 04, 2006

Men are better at writing ...females better at analysing

Please don't get me wrong, I just felt like that. It is a personal observation. Men are more objective in their writings and they quote well. They deal with the objective and follow through the topic.
Females on the other hand express more on the subtle reality, tend to become more emotional in their writings. It may be more on which side of the brain the matter is pouring forth.

You may or may not agree... but just tell me how many men have written romance novels and succeeded?? And have you seen a guy reading those sorts of books... haha.. I can't imagine.

Females are more versatile, they can cast themselves in any mould... play all the roles.. and succeed...but men... ha ha ha... ??? this species is still in a state of shock.. and is struggling admist an identity crisis..in the modern role reversal.....

Hey I am not a feminist!... far from it.. it was just a general observation. Well not many men can/will boldly proclaim that they are efficient domestic managers.. while women have stormed the world.
But its an evolving world, and may be one day men and women might get equal. But thanks to the survival instincts of the species... they all are trying... America teaches them to :-) ...

hey look where i started and where i am ending... women... they have so much capability.. but it is like rabit and tortoise story.. get distracted, trying to multitask so many things.. end up in a mess.. haha.. while men stay focused longer. ... this is what i think. they have larger attention spans.

hey doc, tell me is there any scientific truth in my ramblings ??

Well... leaving all this feminist and misogynistic views aside. these things are for outside world politics etc. For successful relationships, these things are mundane..try not to get caught in the external world.. one must remember... and always keep in mind ...the reasons of being together. "keep the big picture in mind".. no tera mera..will work for long.. ..look for the right reasons, try to co-operate, understand and delegate... you wish to accopmlish things together as a team not as individuals... when 2 lives are involved communicate well all your hopes and expectations... and ask the other party the same.. and then negociate..try to seek a joint venture, that is geared towards success...not against each other....be honest, open and straightforward and polite.. try sharing your profits and successes and dividing the sorrows.... and try to be always there for each other... no matter what. in sickness, in health, in pleasure and in wealth..... communicate well, express and share your feelings... try... Give space to grow, to seek individual goals as well.. ..build and maintain trust.. trust is the bottom word.. keep it always.. and ..on n on...
I just wondered.. what would a man have to say on that subject..
I can wager... if you happen to be from mars you would be wondering what game is being aired on TV next.... or .. aeww!.. what is this all about?? .. but if you are from Venus.. you would be already visualizing hypothetical situations... haha...
Have fun both of you...
i should have split this article in 2 but was too lazy... okay.. "gotta run"... where to?..i didn't a chance to find out.... well the abruptness and the speed n urgency.. led me to wonder in only one direction.. he he.. ;-)

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

ya u r absolutely right.i agree with u!may be science too agrees;-)

Anonymous said...

I knew I could Count on you !!

Anonymous said...

what was this all about??
well some observations do sound right but i lost track of the post somewhere in the middle